I don't have a conclusive answer but I view it like this.
One person born with a malady that is lifelong and lives a sad, depressed life totally controlled by it.
Another person born with same malady but fights and struggles and has an upbeat life that makes others feel better about themselves.
Fate hands the cards but will determines what we do with them.
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I don't have time for all if it, so I pick my battles. I concentrate on spotting and weeding out satanic paper, handkerchiefs (do you really want Satan that close to your nose?) and eggs. I can spot satanic eggs at Wal Mart like a frickin' drug sniffing dog.