My Marriage

Age : 37 Joined : 05 Mar 2008 Posts : 58

Is only 6 months old but, If it going the way it is, It won't last much longer. Please pray that whatever happens is God directed.
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Subject: Re: My Marriage Wed Mar 12, 2008 10:55 am

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Man in Morph Age : 40 Joined : 08 Apr 2007 Posts : 8523

Sorry to hear it. May God give both of you a love for each other that sees past the faults. Praying

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Subject: Re: My Marriage Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:24 am

Age : 40 Joined : 27 Jan 2007 Posts : 5680

The first few years are usually the hardest. Stick it out and it should get easier. Praying

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Subject: Re: My Marriage Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:37 pm

Very true words Tall Tyrion.

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I know at about the 6 month period, our marriage was the toughest. We were really getting on each others nerves. The biggest thing we had to learn is that we 2 people now had become one. We had to quit trying to live 2 separate lives in 1 house. We both had to have some give and take. I had to give up some things, and she did as well. We had to go back to think about why we got married. What did I love about my wife? Why did I want to spend the rest of my life with her?

We have to keep in mind that we are not in a marriage for ourselves. It should be for building up each other in Christ and showing Christ to each other. We are to love our wives as Christ loves the church. (I'm preaching to myself here). If I have to get off the computer and spend time with her, I need to do that. If she needs to stay home from shopping one night, she needs to do that.

Please don't take this as preaching or blaming you. I'm just telling you what we went through and what made it work for us. The more I looked at myself, the bigger plank I saw, and the smaller the speck in her eye became.

Age : 37 Joined : 05 Mar 2008 Posts : 58

This is sad but, I told God this morning I don't care what plans He had for this marriage I don't want it anymore. I won't be home when she comes home from work.
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Mission Of One Age : 38 Joined : 03 Jan 2007 Posts : 5408

So you're gonna toss God AND your marriage out the window? You'd rather do your own thing than do what you think God would have you do?
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Man in Morph Age : 40 Joined : 08 Apr 2007 Posts : 8523

Don't do it man. I know you are hurting but unfortunately, that is a part of life. How about asking God to give you a love for your wife you didn't know existed. I'm praying for you.
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All our ways that seem so right
Lay inside the ways of death
All our trying and our denying
Paupers and peasants, masters of jest.

Joined : 07 Apr 2007 Posts : 285

Please, don't do this.
Give your marriage a chance.
Give God the chance to help you and your wife to understand each other better.
I assume you didn't say YES for six months for for a much longer time.