Prayer request...Please

Mindcage · Number of posts: 501 Age: 36 Registration date: 2007-04-09

As many of you know, My wife and I split up....well, She just took my daughter and left, and moved out of state....we are still married and I really want God to fix this....
Im angry, and disappointed that my wife just didnt and isnt working on our marriage.
in the beginning everyone said, seek Gods will, and I did...but it seems that the more I pray, the further away my wife goes....If I dont call her, she calls me, to talk....but when I want to talk, she ignores me, I recently got in touch with a friend that I grew up with, who is a girl, but there is no romance there, (I still love my wife and want to honor God) anyways my wife is jealous, but yet she has her guy "friend" who is married, that goes to visit her, without his wife because my wife and his hate eachother..., I just dont get it....she says she is still a "christian", but isnt even seeking the lords will, Im not trying to judge, but...I dont know what to do anymore...either live in limbo, states apart, or file a divorce and move on....but I still love her...I need some serious prayer...this is starting to effect me spiritually, and I really miss my daughter alot, Im just trying not to be angry with God, but I dont see him moving on this at all.....

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**Black Rider** · Subject: Re: Prayer request...Please Fri Oct 23, 2009 10:43 am

That's rough man. All I can say is, keep walking and praying and see what the Lord does.

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**alldatndensum** · Subject: Re: Prayer request...Please Fri Oct 23, 2009 4:23 pm

Just because you are praying doesn't mean that God is obligated to bring her back. She has to be willing to hear what God is saying too. I know you're hurting and angry, but remember that God is not there to fix every situation--He just promised to go through it with you. It's okay to get in God's face and scream at Him about this. In the end, He will show you His will for you in this as you learn to trust Him in all things.

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Master's Apprentice · Number of posts: 828 Age: 37 Registration date: 2009-02-20

Great post alldat...

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L8T · Number of posts: 4219 Registration date: 2007-03-13

I am praying for you two...

I want to say that I think that talking to anyone, of the opposite sex, at this time, is a Very Bad Idea.....whether, they are just friends, married, etc...sorry, I just don't see ANYTHING good coming of that......sorry to sound like I am coming down on you.....I want to see God fix this, and, I believe He can, if it is His will....

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intrigued1 · Number of posts: 295 Age: 41 Registration date: 2009-01-25

I will pray.

Mindcage · Number of posts: 501 Age: 36 Registration date: 2007-04-09

I have been humbled, and reminded, that Christ himself is my first love, and when all is said and done on earth, its Christ himself that I will still be with.
I Love my wife, but...My real focus should be on Christ, and My relationship with him is of more Importance...It's hard though, I'm feeling lonely, plus Im one of those guys who should marry, because of that "burning"....
I just feel like Ive let so many people down....I would ask you guys to continue to pray for me...that my spirit be renewed.
Thank You, all..for the prayers!

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texanvfg · Number of posts: 302 Age: 40 Registration date: 2009-07-04

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**Tall Tyrion** · Number of posts: 10208 Age: 41 Registration date: 2007-01-28

I'll echo the wisdom of L8T... Find a good Christian brother to vent
to/pray with, but avoid any contact with a lady, no matter how innocent.

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Angel with Attitude · Subject: Re: Prayer request...Please Tue Oct 27, 2009 5:25 pm

I'm totally convinced that trials come so that we may totally turn to and lean on Him, so we gain experience in WHO He is and HOW faithful He will be to us, to know Him more intimately...

It helps us to keep our peace when stuff comes upp because we know He is the same yesterday, today and forever.

It develops character, patience and perseverence to equip us for every good work.

I don't think He ultimately wants to take anything away from us if we put Him first in everything.

Don't let the loneliness tempt you into making a regretable decision that may harm you and/or complicate/delay the return of your wife.

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