My Girlfriend's Spiritual Heart

Master of the Axe Joined : 06 Apr 2007 Posts : 510

I want to beat the living smurf out of the next person I see. That's how angry and frustrated I am.
It's not good.
Her physical heart is fine.
But she's being odd.
And I'll tell you, I really can't go a minute without smashing a keyboard.
For a month and a half, she's progressed into another person. She's starting to say hurtful things to me, and about herself. She's gone from not drinknig to getting drunk, from waiting till marriage to not caring what age she gets laid at, and from Christian to practically Atheist. She's lost all faith in God, and herself. She doesn't care what happens to her, or what happens in general. I don't know what the smurf happened, and I'm sorry for all the swearing, but I'm just so freaking frustrated about this, because I love her and want to help her, but she won't accept help or tell me what's going on because she thinks if you can't help yourself no one can help you. I don't know what the hell to do anymore but smash Coke cans. Come on, please pray.

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I am gonna pray for both of you, for sure.

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She's scared, and this is how she's coping with what recently happened. She may be testing you to see how you react, and the best thing you can do right now is listen to her and let her know that you love her. Be gentle and kind.
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Sent you a PM

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Master of the Axe Joined : 06 Apr 2007 Posts : 510

She's not getting drunk anymore. Last time (yesterday), she ended up cutting herself unknowingly. She woke up with four cuts on the top of her wrist, so she's not going to be drinking that much anymore...

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Still praying.

Master of the Axe Joined : 06 Apr 2007 Posts : 510

I think I'm sort of getting anxious because her best friend has a bit of a distaste for me.
Now, we were friends (so I thought), so generally friends just do stupid things with eachother. So, today, we're talking, and I did something and she said (obvs. in jest), "it's because of your afro!" So normally when people say that, I'll give the ma light joking slap on the cheek, and laugh, and be like "Don't blame my hair!", then normally anyone who is with me would laugh. This girl, unfortunately didn't. She lashed and just out of the blue said "Ryan, don't freaking touch me, don't ever smurfing slap me again I will hurt you!" So I'm like "..."
But anyway, she just seems like she could easily have a good hold on my girlfriend, and from an honest perspective, she's not the greatest influence.
Help.

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Master of the Axe Joined : 06 Apr 2007 Posts : 510

I need alot more prayer, because things are very tense right now, and I'm confused.

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Will do.

Age : 40 Joined : 27 Jan 2007 Posts : 5683

I feel for you bro, and I will be praying.... Praying

If you want someone to talk to, hit me up. Smile

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Man in Morph Age : 40 Joined : 08 Apr 2007 Posts : 8529

Real tough man. Praying

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Master of the Axe Joined : 06 Apr 2007 Posts : 510

Thanks you guys, it's really good to get some spiritual empathy.

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