Just found out...

TimfromMKE · Number of posts: 127 Age: 38 Registration date: 2008-03-05

My wife has cheated. You thin I should forgive or divorce?

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L8T · Number of posts: 4219 Registration date: 2007-03-13

I think you should get some council from a pastor, or some type of spiritual leader...someone who does couples counselling.

Whatever you do, I want to encourage you to ask for help, elsewhere, than the net.........

(imo) There is nothing wrong with asking for prayer here, but, THIS IS NOT THE PLACE for advice, even from me.

You need face-to-face counselling on this.

You got my prayers.

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_Wes · Number of posts: 1924 Age: 42 Registration date: 2007-04-07

Absolutely - see your pastor or someone whom you trust, and who knows you - immediately. You need sound advice - not from unknown folks on a net board - but folks that know you and love you.

I know what this is like - and I'm praying for you bro.

I can say that forgiveness is possible - and restoration can be had. . . its a tough road. . . but God speed.

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Mindcage · Number of posts: 501 Age: 36 Registration date: 2007-04-09

I feel for you brother, but don't make the same mistake I did, and not get any councel
Hopefully she will go, If not you should anyway...just so you know, people go through crazy things..thoughts, actions,even the people we think we know best.. regardless of the outcome, you will still need forgiveness. my prayers are with you, and for you both.

**alldatndensum** · Subject: Re: Just found out... Wed Jul 15, 2009 10:34 am

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I think you should get some council from a pastor, or some type of spiritual leader...someone who does couples counselling.

Whatever you do, I want to encourage you to ask for help, elsewhere, than the net.........

(imo) There is nothing wrong with asking for prayer here, but, THIS IS NOT THE PLACE for advice, even from me.

You need face-to-face counselling on this.

You got my prayers.

Exactly!

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**Black Rider** · Subject: Re: Just found out... Wed Jul 15, 2009 5:25 pm

Get counsel man. That has to hurt so much, i'm praying for you.

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wv_metaller4christ · Number of posts: 584 Age: 23 Registration date: 2009-06-02

I say the same as the rest of these guys. I know how that feels. I have never been married but cheating is cheating ya know. Whatever you do, don't do it back at her to get even. I did that to my girlfriend before the one I have now and if theres anything I wish I could turn back time and change it is that. It made me no better. (this all happening before I came back to Christ).